Hoarding: Buried Alive, season 1, episode 2 “Beyond Embarrassment”
(original aired March 21, 2010), follows 43 year old Judi a former personal trainer,
and 51 year old Jim who is contemplating moving back in with his mom because he
feels like he cannot control his hoarding alone. Viewers of the show might
believe these people are getting the help they need, and are being
reconstructed back into status quo or normal living citizens. In reality this
so-called help is being used to frame the participant as a resistant lazy slob.
They are consistently shown in a negative light as being inflexible and foolish
for hanging onto what most consider being trash. For example Judi is asked,
“When was the last time you took out the trash?” And her response was a year.
Healthy minded people know that the trash should be taken out weekly, but Judi
cannot distinguish what is trash and what is of value anymore. Judi is shown
sitting in her only available space in her 3 bedrooms, 2-bathroom home, and Jim
is shown siting in his recliner falling asleep in front of the television. What
the show does not focus on is that Judi and Jim have both been victims of
trauma.
Judi saw the love of her life die in a freak lifting accident right in
front of her, and Jim has to deal with being diagnosed with sever social
anxiety, OCD, and the divorce of his parents. These two individuals have built
these massive caves of garbage to protect them from the outside world. Judi
mentions, “I built up these walls to keep everyone else out, like a cocoon.” There
is no way a 30 minute show can build a strong therapist-client relationship to
being to address the trauma, make since of the trauma, and begin the healing
and recovering process of two traumatized human beings in one short episode. Another
element that must be taken into account is the commercial breaks. Each
participant maybe gets 12-13 minutes of airtime to make some progress. Since the
therapy is just a small portion of the show they jump right into the cleaning
process, which creates great distress. This pressure from others to start
cleaning before the participants are ready causes them to become overwhelmed by
the huge task and causes major resistance. They are not ready to let go of
their belongings that have seemed to make them happy or protect them for so
long in that short amount of time given by the producers.
I felt bad for Judi’s cleaning experience. The show mentioned previously
that she only trusted one other person to see the inside of her home. Now Judi
is confronted with a whole cleaning team she has to trust with all her, what
she considers, meaningful possessions. Anyone could see the distress on her
face. She was completely overwhelmed by having complete strangers tearing down
her comfort zone. A professional organizer, psychologist, or otherwise hoarding
expert always leads the rationalizing process that is to redeem the hoarder’s
logic. “This ritual sorting of things entails speaking out loud about different
objects as each is made rational and separate, organized into piles to keep or
discard. The mute, material chaos in managed, slowly and methodically, by
bringing it into the symbolic order through language. Through this ritual, the
hoarder’s secrets are revealed their private shame is exposed and aired
(Lepselter, pg. 933). The participants obviously need more attention and time
put into therapy than cleaning; their whole life needs to be reorganized not
just their living space.
I see this as an act of bullying, and different from any other
television shows that promotes human transformation. For example participants
on Extreme Makeover: Weight Loss Edition
are all willing participants to change and transformation. They know what they
have signed up for and have made the choice themselves. In contrast a loved one
volunteers the participants on Hoarding:
Buried Alive, which is somewhat like an intervention that pressures the
participant into treatment (meaning it was not the participants will, but they
have no other choice or they will be evicted). I agree with the statement, “The
professional help, aside from the psychologist assigned to the hoarder, is
generally not helpful either. They spend the majority of their time cajoling,
harassing, and berating hoarders to get them to release their possessions more
quickly “(Feminspire, 2014).
At the end of the episode both Judi and Jim have made small
improvements. Judi has cleared her kitchen, but still has many of her
belongings in storage bin in her backyard and the rest of her house to clear.
Jim has realized he needs to set small goals for himself so he does not get
discouraged and relapse. His goal setting results in an organized kitchen area
in his one bedroom apartment. Ultimately viewers should see these achievements
as great leaps considering the lack of ethical treatment on these mentally ill
participants. Instead the imagery and lack of time of the television show
disciplines its viewers into being well obeying citizens who take out the trash
and throw away items that are not of use so they do not create fire or health
hazards to the community.
References:
Hoarding:
Buried Alive Casting: About the Show: TLC." TLC. N.p., n.d. Web. 26
Apr. 2014.
<http://www.tlc.com/tv-shows/hoarding-buried-alive/about-the-show/hoarding-casting.htm>.
"Hoarding:
When Did Being Buried Alive Become Good Entertainment?" Feminspire.
N.p., n.d. Web. 26 Apr. 2014.
<http://feminspire.com/hoarding-when-did-being-buried-alive-become-good-entertainment/>.
Lepselter, Susan.
"The disorder of things: Hoarding narratives in popular media." Anthropological
Quarterly 84.4 (2011): 919-947.
Zimdars,
M. (2014, April) Weight-loss television & governing at a distance. Lecture.
Lecture conducted from University of Iowa, Iowa City.
I thought you made some very excellent points about this show. I don’t like to admit it, but I do enjoy watching it on occasion. It’s probably because I feel some sort of superiority complex because my apartment is about 1000x cleaner than the homes displayed on this show. I was particularly interested in the point you made about how the show doesn’t really address the people’s mental illnesses. Thinking back, I do see how the point that the therapists are more bullies in disguise is quite accurate. Even if the therapists did spend a lot of time with the patients they are still dehumanized by the fast-paced way the show is filmed. I think you hit the nail on the head by stating that the show is not meant to help these people, but its real reason is to prime people into behaving a certain way by shaming the mentally ill patients.
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