As
we all know, the effect of media on our society is beyond heavy—influencing our
every move, our thoughts, and our beliefs. Television in particular, as we have learned throughout the
semester, tends to label and stereotype lifestyles through different series
broadcasted. Growing up in a
family who has owned and managed funeral homes for over three decades, the HBO
show Six Feet Under, has played a
significant role as far as media depictions that for me, just so happens to hit
close to home.
“Who
are these people who are funeral directors that we hire to face death for us?
What does that do to their own lives—to grow up in a home where there are
bodies in the basement, to be a child and walk in on your father with a body
lying on a table opened up and him working on it? What does that do to you?”
(Heffernan, NY Times). This statement was affirmed by the producer of Six Feet Under, Alex Ball, when asked
about the concept of the program. Six Feet Under is a 6-time Emmy Award
winner that aired for 5 seasons from 2001 to 2005 on HBO. The show depicts the member’s of the
Fisher family and their lives running a funeral home in Los Angeles. The show stars Nate Fisher whose
funeral director father dies and grants co-ownership of the family business to
him and his brother, David. There
are more members of the Fisher family—the widow Ruth and daughter Claire. Other regulars play big roles in the
series such as the mortician and family friend, Federico, Nate’s girlfriend,
Brenda, and David’s long-term boyfriend, Keith.
Like
the Fisher family, my grandfather and owner (my mom’s dad), handed down the
family funeral business to his two children, my mom and her brother. I have grown up in the funeral home
business—from living above one of the establishments when I was a baby before
my parents bought a house, to recently answering phones and being a secretary
on my time off from school, helping out when they need it, I have been exposed
to the lifestyle funeral directors and morticians lead.
Six Feet Under focuses on human
mortality and the lives of those who handle it on a daily basis, in which I
have had the opportunity to witness this first-hand. Meeting with families, making pre-arrangements, directing
funerals and visitations, being on 24/7 call, are just some of the lines of
work that expected from funeral directors. I have grown up with my mom waking up in the middle of the
night, leaving the house to go on a “pick up,”—picking up someone who died at a
nursing home, hospital, personal home, etc. I have gone on pick-ups with my mom to airports, picking up
caskets that have been shipped in, and like I said, I have been working there,
so have become familiar with the culture of running funeral homes. Some
instances of Six Feet Under are spot
on but there are also scenes and cases in the show that contribute to a
stereotype of the funeral directing profession that is skewed.
Like
all television, the drama is escalated and blown out of proportion but they are
accurate with the depictions of the different people who die and how much of a
broad spectrum there is when dealing with families. There is one episode where a porn star dies and is brought
to the Fisher’s funeral home for services, and some of the characters are
shocked by who comes to the wake and funeral. In another episode that related to my family was when Fisher
& Sons arranged services for a gang member. My family’s funeral homes are located in Chicago, so we get
some of these crowds often.
Another
aspect of the show regarding stereotypes is a homosexual working in the funeral
business. David is gay and
throughout my family’s time working in this industry, there tends to be a
substantial amount of gay mend who gravitate toward this career field.
Although
I have not seen this show is a while, I remember my mom watching it while it
was airing and comparing it to our lives and how truthful it was. Of course, they emphasized
relationships, sex and drama, but it was interesting to actually see another viewpoint
on a topic that not many people are familiar with the “behind the scenes” of. It was also interesting for me to
research and look into this show and compare my views and experiences to what
the media portrays.
Television
offers viewpoints and standings that in ways are accurate, but for those who
actually have hands on experience with what is being shown, like myself, will
always be able to critique and differentiate what is real and what is not.
I'm glad someone chose to talk about this show - I watched the entire series and absolutely loved it! I think it's really cool that you were able to compare some of the events in the show to your own personal life. It's been a few years since I've seen the show, but it's hard to forget some of the crazy things the Fisher house encountered. I recall a few scenes in the show where I wondered, "would that really happen in real life?" SPOILER!!!! For example, the episode where David is kidnapped by a man who forces him to do some extremely violent and grotesque things before he'll let him go. Prior to this episode, we were so accustomed to seeing David as a happy-go-lucky guy for the most part, but that kidnapping episode where he's exposed to real violence seems so real for the audience and furthers our lack of sympathy and reminds us of the cruelties of the wold, which is essentially what the entire series accomplishes. Nice blog overall!
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